Many people want to meet their soul mate in life - a person with whom you can be yourself. Unfortunately, not everyone succeeds in meeting a loved one: the one who is desperately looking for a loved one does not find him, and the one who lives his life without thinking about meeting with love finds it.
Maybe the secret is simple - you need to stop "chasing" for love, and she herself will come to you? In addition, very often we build some ideals in our heads, and our soul mate can live in a neighboring house ...
Take a closer look at your surroundings, and some signs will help you understand whether you have met your soul mate or not.
10. Honesty and sincerity
It is no secret to anyone that in relationships partners often use manipulations and try to hide information that will not decorate them.
But people who are truly family will never deceive each other, they can easily say everything they think or feel about.
Sincerity and honesty for them is not something that is difficult to achieve. If you have to dissemble, pretend to be someone else, think, maybe this is not your person?
9. Strive to spend time together more often
You want to spend as much time as possible with this person, because with him you feel relaxed, calm. You do not need to pretend when you are in a bad mood, or pick up words in a dialogue.
In addition, you really have something to do together, you feel good, you feel a surge of strength, not a loss of energy. When you see this person, you just feel good that he is nearby.
8. Relationship difficulties are quickly resolved
In all respects, there are quarrels, without this in any way. It is difficult to imagine the relationship of people who pass only in joy, it’s even strange ...
For some, a quarrel is a reason to leave, people do not understand for a friend, because they are strangers. But another quarrel or grinding does not frighten soul mates, they understand that complexity is as much an important part of a relationship as something else. You quickly settle the conflict, and everything returns to square one.
7. You do not need to play a role
Probably everyone in life at least once tried to play a role in order to attract the person they liked.
Perhaps this worked - a person noticed you, but after some time passed, you looked at the person whom you were once in love with, and did not understand why. That is, a person becomes absolutely indifferent to you - this happens when you fall in love with an image.
When you truly love a person, you love everything in him, including his bad sides, you accept as he is, and you yourself can be yourself. You don’t have to play someone.
6. Mutual care
If you care about another person with difficulty, and his problems for you are an empty phrase, then most likely what you feel is love that will quickly pass.
When you meet a soul mate, you want with all your heart to help this person, take care of him.
You can forget about your problems, to rush to this person and help in difficult times. This happens even if you used to always be an egoist, as if something new was being born in you ...
5. The pursuit of a common goal
A soul mate is a person with whom you communicate closely, with whom you feel incredible peace and comfort. Of course, with close communication, you know about the plans and goals of this person.
As a rule, kindred spirits always have some common goal, such that sometimes it is even difficult to define it ... You just internally understand that you are “from the same field” and are moving together in the right direction.
4. The same life principles
People who are close to each other always have common principles. For example, if you are a very decent and kind person, you always try to be honest, and your partner can cheat, act badly with others, then this alliance is unlikely to last long.
Soul mates are always with the same principles: either these are two selfish people who step over everyone to achieve their goals, or, conversely, these are two decent people who care about others and always support each other in good deeds.
In another case, people will quickly part because they have different principles.
3. Continuous interest in each other
Even if you have already discussed 1000 topics and you know that everything seems to be about each other, you don’t get tired of this person, you are always interested in what he tells, does, etc. If interest is only on one side, this is nothing , like the passion of one, and she will quickly disappear.
Soul mates are always interested in each other, they have something to do together. And even if the lesson is very simple - for example, watching videos together, it is always interesting for close people to do it together.
2. A sense of calm and comfort
Strange people feel very simple - you have to pretend to be with them, you feel discomfort and want to leave as soon as possible.
With a kindred spirit, everything is different - the presence of a person gives you peace of mind, you feel comfortable and relaxed. You do not need to choose what to say or what to do - you can just sit on a bench and silently eat ice cream, and it’s so easy, easy on your soul ...
You do not have strained communication or smiles, you do not rush to say goodbye to this person, and when you say goodbye, you quickly begin to miss him.
1. You balance each other
When you meet a soul mate, your differences do not separate you from each other, but rather complement and balance you. Similarities help you grow, grow, become better.
This feeling is difficult to explain in words, you just feel: “How lucky I was! This man is perfect for me! ”
And, indeed, no matter what you do, you feel that your loved one will always give you the right advice that will help you in solving any issues, you think how best it is for each other and always help.