The foundation of relations has long been not only love. Below is a list of signs that your girlfriend is with you just because of money.
10. Asks to buy her things
She keeps saying that she needs a new dress, bag, jeans. Suspiciously often her heels on shoes break, for the third time in six months they steal the phone. Moreover, she is not satisfied with the things bought in the mass market, she requires branded and expensive. Do you still believe that this is the normal behavior of an ordinary woman? She's just using you. Do not fall for such tricks. If a girl loves you, she will not pull the last money out of you to buy another bag. She will not require anything from you financially. Respecting you, and yourself too, the woman herself will earn for her needs, and if she does not earn it, she will definitely not beg for the man.
9. Likes high priced establishments
You constantly meet a girl in cafes, restaurants, go to expensive concerts, attend expensive performances, and she always initiates such trips. Most likely, this does not mean her desire to spend time together, chat with her beloved, but about a thirst for entertainment. She wants to visit places that she cannot afford to herself. Of course, you do not need to sit at home, and it is quite normal when the gentleman pays for the lady. But only in the place where he invited her. If the girl herself drags you to expensive establishments, then everything is very clear - she sees in you only a sponsor.
8. Rarely answers calls
Perhaps you are in love, you think about her all the time. In the middle of the day, you want to know how she is doing. You write romantic sms and call her several times a day. But she is in no hurry to answer your messages. Moreover, she does not even pick up the phone. This is an alarming bell in a relationship. A man, when in love, will never ignore the object of his sympathy. Do not hope that she does not hear, or the phone is broken. If you are interested in her, she will call you back. And when she does call you, answer honestly whether she wants to see you or she has financial difficulties again.
7. Often speaks about his problems
You just met, and she already covers you with stories about her troubles. No, she does not ask for advice and sympathy at all, as you thought. She wants you to solve her problems, of course, money. Agree, it looks strange. A self-respecting girl will not shift the solution of her personal issues to someone else's shoulders. Especially on the shoulders of a man who causes her sympathy. If you have been together for a long time, then this is the norm, relax. Be prepared to solve her problems further. But, you see, there is a difference, help is needed to repair the crane or to pay for the repair of an expensive car.
6. Her friends don’t put you in anything
Perhaps you are not represented to them at all. Or do not communicate with them, because you know that her friends are not happy with you. And when you accidentally intersect with them, the girls talk about theirs, not paying attention to you. Have you ever wondered where such an attitude is from? Your girlfriend’s girlfriends treat you with disdain, because she herself positions you like that. Most of the girls are friendly towards the friend’s boyfriend, because they wish her happiness. But only if she herself hates it, her friends are unlikely to treat you differently.
5. Denies proximity
Now we are not talking about sex on a first date. But when the relationship develops, and she pulls everything back, that is, an occasion to think. You are either unpleasant to her, or her upbringing does not allow her. And the point here is not even about sex. I want to touch a loved one, hug, kiss. If she avoids your touches, she simply does not want to be close to you, you are disgusted with her. But it could be the other way around. The girl agrees to everything, but only when you give her gifts and money. Proximity in this case is used as a means of manipulation.
4. Finds reasons to refuse meetings when you do not have money
She is not interested in meeting under the moon, long walks along the promenades and parks. When you admit that today you can’t afford it aground and her favorite restaurant, she refuses to meet with you. This is a clear sign that she is with you because of the money. The girl in love last of all will think about how much money is in your wallet. She will gladly agree to a normal walk, just to see you. After all, your presence is important to her, and not your money.
3. She does not give gifts
You fill up her with gifts, flowers, arrange surprises, drive to expensive establishments. In response, you get absolutely nothing. On the birthday that you wanted to celebrate in a bar with friends, and went with her to a fashionable restaurant, you also did not receive a gift. You may not have expected an expensive presentation from her, but you still feel unpleasant. I want to please a loved one. If she really loves you, she will always take care of a gift for any occasion. After all, as they say: "The main thing is not a gift, but attention." Let it be an inexpensive thing, but donated from the heart.
2. Disappears for a long time
You communicate, meet, but she suddenly disappears. Does not answer calls, messages on social networks, although he regularly appears there. You probably already have pictures in your head about the terrible maniac who keeps her in slavery. Take it easy. If loved ones are not looking for her, then she has left you. If she appears and disappears with constant frequency, perhaps you are not alone with her. Or she is looking for a better option. She may part with you and come back again, may not explain her absence at all. But the fact remains, she does not want to be with you constantly. She has a different interest in you.
1. Complains that he hates his work
The girl constantly complains about her work. She talks about how hard she has to, how tired she is, how her colleagues bring her. Often phrases flicker about how good it would be to not work. And in your words of support or advice about finding another job, she is offended. Most likely the girl hopes that you will take her for full security. If you are also quite a rich person, then you can be sure of it. Checking this is very simple, help her with finding another job. If she enthusiastically embarks on a search, then she does not see a financial pillow in you, but simply could not decide to change her profession.
All these signs indicate the commercialism of your girlfriend. Of course, the presence of a separate one of them does not mean anything. But if they are together, then you need to think. And indeed, when meeting with girls, you do not need to splurge them and pretend to be a millionaire in the third generation. Then, initially such persons will not stick to you.