There is an opinion that as soon as a girl has a man, she begins to come up with the names of their unborn children. Below is a list of signs of a relationship in which there is no future.
10. You do not feel pride and admiration for your partner
Whatever your new chosen one does, you do not feel pride in him. You do not admire his skills, you do not care about his career achievements. Most likely, this person is simply not interesting to you. Or he does not do anything that would cause you positive emotions. In neither case is it possible to develop relations. Do not lie to yourself and him, the man has become indifferent to you. A loving woman admires her man. Even if actions that cause pride are rather doubtful. Do not try to pretend, because you can not live in a lie all your life.
9. Holiday romance
On vacation, there is a special atmosphere that promotes love. Sea, sun, tasty wine. Entering a holiday romance, do not hope for a sequel. According to statistics, only 10% of affair ends in a wedding. Holiday novels usually develop rapidly, and partners seem completely different than in life. You can’t imagine what this attractive macho is in everyday life. Most likely, he is far from ideal. It is not necessary to open as much as possible to the partner and rush with intimacy, such relations will definitely not have a continuation. If you are lucky, then know that love at a distance is a rather dubious pleasure. Radically change your life and move to another city, few decide.
8. The thought of breaking up no longer scares the couple
Previously, you did not allow the thought that your loved one would leave you. Now everything has changed. There are times when you think one is much better. You notice the same for your partner. You have become indifferent to each other and are ready to leave, but you meet out of habit, because it is necessary, and relatives and relatives are waiting for your wedding invitation. No need to rush. If you feel good without each other, you normally perceive thoughts of parting, then your relationship has no future.
7. Significant moments are becoming less and more jealousy
In the old days, you had many memorable highlights. Now there are only quarrels, you are constantly unhappy with each other, jealousy and suspicions have appeared in the relationship. Such relationships will not lead to anything good. Loving partners want to please a friend, arrange surprises. Every evening spent together means a lot to them, they are ready to understand and accept each other. If instead you check your loved one’s phone for calls and messages from other women, your relationship has become obsolete. There is only a sense of ownership. A strong family you will not succeed, you better leave.
6. Love by pen
If your partner lives in another city, your relationship is doomed to failure. It doesn’t matter even their background. If you occasionally visit him, and he visits you, it can quickly get bored. There are frequent cases when people living at a distance are very happy at first to meet. But time goes on, and they still live in different cities and cannot come to a common decision. Sooner or later they will get tired of it. A man wants a woman to meet him at home, and not come for the weekend. Even more hopeless is the correspondence romance with a person whom you have never seen. It could be anyone. Therefore, do not waste time, and insist on a personal meeting. Then you will have at least some chances for a strong long-term relationship.
5. Romance with the "schoolboy"
Of course, you are flattered that your partner is ten years younger than you. You are showing off your young “groom” to your girlfriends. But such a relationship usually does not last a long time. This option is suitable if you want to have fun. If you want to create a strong family, then with such a gentleman it is unlikely to succeed. According to statistics, marriages, where a woman is older than a partner, last no longer than 5 years. This is due to different outlooks on life. A woman dreams of a child, but a man is not ready. A man wants to go to parties, chat with friends, and sooner or later he will begin to be shy of his "elderly girlfriend." In such relationships, a woman often plays the role of a mother, her chosen one behaves like a son. This is the wrong model of relationships, and they won’t lead to anything good.
4. Relations "on the nerves"
Loud scandals, beating plates and even assault are not uncommon in your relationship. Better look for another partner. Maybe now everything suits you. Loud quarrels are accompanied by no less loud reconciliation. But living next to such a person nearby is always very difficult. Few people are ready to live like a powder keg, not knowing at what point it will explode. Such relationships will destroy you psychologically. Constant emotional breakdowns, tears. Also, think about your future children, would you like them to live in such an environment? If not, end this relationship without regrets.
3. In this relationship, you are not developing
You feel that you have stopped developing next to this man. He needs little for life, he does not strive for anything. He lives on a small salary. A room in a communal apartment, and he is glad of it. But you love him for who he is. Moreover, you began to support him. You yourself believe that the best pastime on Friday night is TV. You no longer want to learn new things, although you used to be completely different. You are more and more drawn into this swamp. Maybe you don’t have to fool yourself? No love is worth it. There is only one life, it is necessary to set goals, to achieve them, not to stop there.
2. Relations with the "married man"
If your man is married, what kind of relationship can be discussed? You probably expect him to divorce. Are you ready to wait another 5 years, and 10? If you are not satisfied with the status of a lover, run away from him. He will never divorce. Many married men do not mind spending time with another woman. But they always return to his wife. There is their common home, children, everything is familiar there and maybe not at all as bad as he tells. Therefore, do not hesitate and do not waste time on it. Few men decide on such dramatic changes. If he leaves his wife for you, nothing prevents him from leaving you in the future for a new mistress.
1. An affair with "sissy"
An affair with "sissy" is unlikely to be continued. Such a man obeys his mother in everything; he is unlikely to decide on a relationship against her will. So, if you are crazy about him, you will have to make friends with the future mother-in-law and act through it. If she does not like you, then you have little chance. But even if you manage to “recapture” a man from his mother, you will have to replace her. After all, he is completely unprepared for an independent life.