At one wonderful moment, a person begins to drop out of the created “matrix” of life and understand that he has been going the wrong way for a long time. And sometimes they are even triggered by external events - they say about such situations that "randomness is not accidental."
Having realized the mistakes of the past, we decide to change the present, try to consider the distant future filled with the unknown. It is very scary to turn back on the wrong track, fill up new bumps and finally give up, as it was before. How not to get confused in your new life and this time do everything right?
We suggest paying attention to 10 exact signs proving that you have chosen the right path.
10. You know what you want
The person notes that the injuries of the past have ceased to put pressure on him, he does not cling to any attachments, whether to his place of residence, work, friends and relatives. This time you clearly understand what you expect from life, even regardless of the fact that until you meet support from loved ones. You may not know how to achieve the desired goals, but they have already appeared - and this is a good sign. You begin to think not only tactically, so to speak “one day”, but also strategically, drawing a picture of your life for months and even years in advance. Now you can define the angles and steps to achieve life plans and even take your first timid steps.
9. People are drawn to you like a magnet
No matter how antisocial or introverted you were earlier, but now you are experiencing a storm of activity - everyone wants to see you, talk to you, have a relationship, and even debate some in order to reveal the truth. A confident and moral person can be seen from afar - you finally got rid of the opinion of society and are ready to act against it. At first, this causes bewilderment and irritation for loved ones, because secretly they dream of being the same, only the "gut is thin." Over time, people realize that it’s better to stay close to people like you to join the good and recharge with positive energy. Avoid contact with energy vampires, because right now you are most emitting light.
8. Quiet joy has become your normal state
Spiritual ordeals begin to recede, taking away disappointment, inner complexes and old grievances. You thank God at least for the fact that you are simply alive, healthy, efficient, and therefore you can change your life. You can smile for no reason all day after listening to good music, talking with a nice person, or just from your own interesting ideas, good deeds. A breath of wind brings liberation to your thoughts, and indeed contact with nature at the moment of life is what the doctor ordered. Even troubles you begin to realize as a life lesson, so you do not take everything to heart.
7. You know what you deserve and what you don’t
In fact, a person must understand that his actions are like seeds. What exactly he sows in the world and in the souls of other people, then he returns to him, and sometimes a hundredfold. Therefore, you are soberly analyzing your early actions, as well as adjusting your current actions in order to ensure that the “fruits” you receive in the future are as positive as possible. You understand that you deserve to be happy no less than any other person. And if someone crosses the road, it means that he is not on the road with you - and this is already the ability to get rid of life-poisoning connections. Congratulations on being aware of your life rights and responsibilities.
6. You are not afraid to take risks
You finally realize the deep meaning of the phrase that if you are afraid of something, then this is the act that must be done in the first place. The absence of fear and fear liberates, they no longer control life. You are ready to find out the answers to the most unpleasant questions and reconciled with them in advance. You are also ready for the consequences of hardships and failures, destruction and breaks, as you can build a solid and reliable foundation for the future in a new empty place. Risk for you is not excitement and not roulette, but a way of knowing the world, clarifying your boundaries and possibilities. To take risks is to try and gain experience, be it positive or negative. This is much better than sitting fifth on the sofa believing that life or other people owe you something.
5. Do you understand the difference between long-term and short-term benefits
As a true strategist, you analyze any life situation or relationship for benefits. The short-term benefit is passing and makes it possible to live "here and now", while the long-term or strategic one allows you to gain independence, to feel reliable in any circumstances. The possibility of giving up quick benefits for the long-term is the foundation of productive work, full-fledged family and personal relationships, and harmonious development of health.
4. You do not allow other people to define themselves
Awakened person begins to understand that for a long time he lived a strange life. Parents from the very first years of life pathologically laid their expectations in us, then friends, imaginary “halves” and society as a whole connected. True love on the part of any person, whether he is a family member or a colleague, begins with the full acceptance of you for who you are. These people will not put sticks in the wheels, but will support any of your decisions and undertakings just because you see your life that way. Pay attention that you have your own Path, and on it you can meet fellow travelers - people with the same mindset. Learn to get rid of poisonous bonds that inhibit internal development, even when it comes to consanguinity.
3. Lack of fatigue
A surge of inspiration, vitality and strength is a sure sign that the Universe and God approve of your chosen path. Without the help of coffee, food and other doping, they give the feeling that the day will surely go smoothly. Even after redoing a bunch of things, you feel satisfaction and happiness, and not tiredness and the desire to fall asleep faster, to quickly "burn through" your life.
2. You do not compare yourself with others
Since childhood, parents, teachers and our supposedly friends begin to compare us with others, giving out the results of their comparisons. So two life-injuring injuries are cultivated - “narcissism” (“princess”, “prince” syndrome) or, on the contrary, an inferiority complex. You must stop looking for idols and idols. Yes, all people in our lives are teachers, but they are by no means the ultimate truth. Realize that you have your Destination, your unique Path in this life. And you will surely meet people on it who will see “your man” in you, not wanting to compare you with others and change at least one trait.
1. You do not hold on to the past
You have learned to analyze your experience and draw conclusions without emotions and pain - it means that you are finally ready to move on. "Bumps" stuffed everything in this life, even outwardly the happiest, richest and most successful people. Another thing is that someone is used to playing the role of a victim, rassusolivaya every minute of past failures and reveling in their misfortune. Most people tend to masochism to one degree or another, but this must be overcome in itself. An analysis of experience will make it possible to radically restructure life - not to go to hated posts to work, not to choose people with the same shortcomings to create a family, not to do things about which conscience had already shouted “don't you dare”.
Awakening is always difficult, because a blinding bright light hurts your eyes first, causing discomfort. And when you get used to it, you see the world, its people and current events much more clearly, without distortions and “masks”, and this is a real gift. Isn't that a great metaphor?